Although October is the perfect month to dress up, you do not need to wait for it to come to show off all your imagination or play at being someone else and, especially, to have an unforgettable experience with your partner.
Do not be ashamed to wear a costume and be a superhero, or a sexy teacher or a little devil; it is the opportunity to enjoy all the “dirty” games you can imagine with your partner.
Many times you have the curiosity, but you do not dare; do not think so much about it and give yourself the chance to try on that costume you liked so much and fantasize about being someone else, as if you had a secret identity.
Forget about the idea that costumes are only for children, or to wear at a theme party. Adults also wear costumes and if it is in the intimacy, much better. It is a very original way to surprise your partner, it is fun and sensual at the same time.
Today I will tell you about some benefits you can achieve by wearing costumes in intimacy:
Open your mind: Imagine the following; during the day, your life goes by as a busy housewife, but at night you become a lustful spy who wants to get caught.
It is a game, so only you will impose your rules, you can improvise a dialogue, let yourself be carried away by the moment and free yourself from all the taboos that society imposes.
No to routine: One of the reasons why couples’ relationships fall into monotony is because they get bored of doing the same thing, even sex becomes just another routine.
This is not to say that costumes will magically improve your sex life, but they will surely inject you with a dose of action, and, above all, fun. You will be amazed at what you are capable of.
It reduces stress: You had a week full of work, stress and a myriad of situations, but not everything can be bad, there is always a reward, so you deserve a moment of relaxation and intimacy.
Trust and complicity: These two ingredients should not be missing in a good couple relationship. Using disguises for your sexual encounters is a super recommended practice. Hopefully, it will be a habit that lasts for many years.
If there is trust, there is no shame and this is not only related to sexuality, it also has to do with that complicity that makes you identify with each other. If you do not feel completely convinced about dressing up, you can start with a mask or provocative lingerie.
Fulfill your fantasies: We have all fantasized about specific situations, scenarios that, of course, are in our mind; however, there is nothing better than making them come true.
You can pretend you are a nurse taking care of her patient, or that Little Red Riding Hood is looking for the big bad wolf, anything goes. As long as you agree, play ‘dirty’, but, above all, enjoy it.
Live creativity: Sometimes, when we are working, ideas do not come so easily because the brain gets tired of thinking about many issues at the same time and, of course, comes the anguish and frustration for not achieving the goals set.
So do something fun and different with your partner; awaken the creativity you need so much. When you occupy your mind with other relaxing activities, such as a costume sex session, the mind rests and becomes not only creative but productive.
Know yourself: Even if you live with someone for a long time and think you know them, the truth is that humans are unpredictable. That is what disguises are all about, the idea is to discover that hidden side that also wants to have fun.
Variety is the spice of life and dressing up as a couple breaks with your everyday-tasks; enjoy your sexuality, eroticize the moment and change the routine by adding the spark that, for a moment, makes us forget about so many worries.
Traducción del español: Catalina Oviedo Brugés
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