Some sexologists confirm that the power of sexual energy is vast and has not yet been harnessed or potentiated as it should. There is a practice that transforms traditional sex, and the thing is that it not only focuses on physical pleasure, but also on achieving other non-sexual goals and objectives.
Sexologist Venus O’Hara, an expert on the subject, explains how to channel the energy of orgasm and get what you want: “Beyond sex, I want the tools I share to serve others as much as they served me. Magic lit the way for me to learn and discover many things that gave me peace, hope and optimism”, she says.
O’Hara has a diary where she writes down all her orgasms and intentions: “Without going into details, I will say that when I look at its pages I can see that I have achieved everything I have wished for”.
In her book ‘Orgasmic Manifestation’ she writes about her personal experience and teaches techniques to reach that energy, eroticize desires and put them into practice, either alone or as a couple.
O’ Hara explores different practices that allow us to be fully aware of the energy of orgasm and use it to improve our lives: “The goal is to teach new ways to live and perceive sexuality and show its true potential. I encourage you to enjoy self-pleasure in a different way and, if you have a partner who is open-minded about these issues, you should explore and experiment together”.
The question we all ask ourselves is: how do you manifest that sexual magic? To understand it, it consists of directing sexual energy and orgasm towards a specific intention, a desire or a reality that you want to manifest in your life. For example, improving your quality of life, the job of your dreams, a house, a trip, whatever you desire.
That energy you experience while having sex or during masturbation, as the sexologist explains, you can channel it into things that have nothing to do with sex: “Sexual magic is not only a source of pleasure, but also a much more powerful force than you could imagine, and you achieve it without sacrificing the most pleasurable sensations”.
Venus, who has studied female sexuality, explains that she also practices magical sex in which she performs a ritual that frees her from what does not serve her and wants to leave behind. She tells that, since March 5, 2018, her life changed in many aspects: “I paid all my debts, I changed my apartment to a much bigger and more comfortable one and I bought all the furniture. I am living a privileged life”.
It’s something similar to the law of attraction, where you attract what you think: “Every self-love session had an intention and during the stimulation phase, where I relied on my sexual fantasies, I imagined that I had already achieved what I wanted. I focused on the sensations and emotions that this gave me”.
After all, having sex produces many physical and mental benefits such as the release of endorphins and oxytocin that reduce stress levels, produce well-being and contribute to improved sleep, thus preventing insomnia.
Additionally, endorphins act as natural painkillers that relieve certain ailments, and some studies suggest that regular sex and orgasms strengthen the immune system and pelvic floor muscles, which prevent urinary incontinence and improve sexual health.
According to the expert, sexuality is a powerful force that can be constructive or destructive, depending on how it is channeled, you just have to learn to control it. As well as having a clear intention and visualizing this energy in a positive way to achieve all the goals set.
The sexologist suggests enhancing this moment through a massage with essential oils: lavender, jasmine, rose, ylang-ylang that allow channeling all that sexual energy:
- Lavender to connect with sexuality.
- Jasmine has to do with romance and seduction.
- Rose is related to passion.
- Ylang-ylang, an aphrodisiac that increases attraction and sensuality.
Once they are mixed, slide it over your partner’s skin and massage, impregnating the skin with the oils and connecting the senses. Note: avoid the genitals.
This practice is designed for all those who fully enjoy their sexuality and are willing to explore beyond traditional standards. It may seem a bit eccentric, but nothing is lost by making the most of all your sexual energy to have a #sinrecato experience.
Traducción del español: Catalina Oviedo Brugés
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